Workplace bullying is a serious issue that can have significant negative effects on an individual's mental health and well-being. If you or someone you know is experiencing workplace bullying, it's important to take action to stop it. Here are some steps you can take:
- Speak up: If you feel comfortable doing so, speak to the person who is bullying you and let them know how their behaviour is affecting you. Sometimes people are unaware of how their actions are being perceived.
- Document the behaviour: Keep a record of any instances of bullying, including what was said or done, who was present, and the date and time. This can be useful if you need to escalate the issue to a supervisor or HR.
- Report it: If the bullying continues or if you don't feel comfortable addressing it directly, report it to your supervisor, HR department, or a higher-up in the organization. They have a responsibility to address the issue and ensure a safe and healthy work environment.
- Seek support: Don't suffer in silence. Talk to friends, family, or a mental health professional to help you cope with the stress and anxiety that workplace bullying can cause.
- Know your rights: Workplace bullying is not acceptable and is illegal in many countries, including Australia. Familiarise yourself with your organization's policies and procedures for dealing with workplace bullying and know your legal rights.
Workplace bullying can be subtle and insidious, making it challenging to recognise — both in yourself and in your colleagues. Here are some tips on how to spot it:
Recognising Workplace Bullying in Yourself
- Feeling Dread About Work: If you're anxious or stressed about going to work due to one particular person, that’s a red flag.
- Physical Symptoms: Anxiety-related physical issues like stomach cramps or headaches that mysteriously disappear when you're not at work.
- Loss of Confidence: If you're constantly second-guessing yourself and feeling incompetent, despite a history of capability, this can be a sign.
- Social Withdrawal: Avoiding social interactions at work or during work-related activities might indicate you are being bullied.
Recognising Workplace Bullying in Others:
- Unexplained Absences or Sickness: If a colleague is often sick or avoids work for no clear reason, this could be a sign.
- Drop in Productivity: Declining work performance and lack of enthusiasm may be indications of bullying.
- Isolation: Notice if someone is increasingly isolated, being left out of meetings, or avoided by other colleagues.
- Changes in Behaviour: Sudden changes in attitude, appearing more subdued or agitated can indicate that someone is experiencing bullying.
By identifying these signs early on, you can take immediate steps to address the situation. Whether it's you or someone else facing workplace bullying, know that silence is not the solution. You deserve a work environment that's free from harassment, and taking action is the first step towards it.